Two sides of Pride

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Pride is not inherently evil; it is the manner in which we express it that determines whether it elevates or destroys. When the Black Stars of Ghana prepared for the 2022 World Cup qualifiers, their coach urged them to play with pride and hoist the nation’s flag high. This kind of pride is noble, it fuels unity, courage, and excellence.
Pride emerges when we accomplish what others doubted we could achieve. In those moments, feeling proud is a natural and healthy response. But when pride morphs into a weapon to belittle others, it becomes arrogance. That is when pride loses its virtue.
I remember a friend who was revered as pious and unique among his peers. He spoke with humility, as if the weight of heaven rested on his shoulders. Yet behind this façade, he indulged in gossip and refused to lend a hand in even the smallest tasks if he deemed others capable. His pride was not rooted in righteousness, but in a sense of superiority.
Many take pride in their talents, be it singing, dancing, or other gifts. These abilities are blessings, but they should never be wielded to mock or shame those who lack them. Pride in talent should inspire service, not scorn.
If everyone used pride to elevate themselves at the expense of others, the world would indeed become a living hell. Pride is neutral, it becomes good or bad based on how it is displayed. The next time you feel proud, let it be a pride that uplifts, not one that diminishes. True pride honours both yourself and the dignity of others.