Beyond the Title: Respect Rooted in Shared Humanity

We must never allow our functional positions to dictate how we treat one another. The true measure of respect lies in recognising our shared humanity, not in the transient roles we occupy. Too often, we cling to titles and positions that can vanish in an instant, forgetting that beneath them all, we are simply human.
Consider the discomfort of realising that someone you once treated with disdain because they were your subordinate has now become your superior. Such a reversal would not be easy to face. This is why I emphasise treating everyone with dignity, much like the towel that dries our bodies, we never know where our help will come from, so we must treat all people as ourselves.
When I say that “we are the things we complain about,” I mean that our past experiences often resurface in new forms. We complain when we lack power, yet when we gain it, we forget those very grievances. True, one may not fully grasp the weight of responsibility until stepping into a role, but that should never erase our conscience.
Respect is not commanded by harsh words but earned through kindness. Imagine walking into a room only to find yourself isolated because you once treated others as nobodies. The pain of being remembered with resentment is real, and even those who might defend you may find themselves agreeing with the criticism. Yet, some take pride in being labelled “wicked” or “disrespectful,” as though alienating others were an achievement. This is misguided. No one thrives alone; as social beings, we depend on one another to live meaningfully.
Therefore, let us not allow our fleeting functional levels to determine how we treat others. Instead, let our shared humanity be the foundation of respect, compassion, and connection.